THE TEN VIRGINS

THE TEN VIRGINS

By Evang. Emmanuel Adebayo Ilana Otito

Text: Matthew 25:1–13

Introduction:

In this parable, Jesus paints a powerful picture of what it means to be prepared for His return. Ten virgins set out to meet the bridegroom. They all had lamps, but only five brought extra oil. When the bridegroom delayed, they all slept. But at midnight, the cry rang out. Only the wise, who had oil, were ready. The rest were shut out.

This parable isn’t just a story—it’s a mirror. It challenges us to examine our spiritual readiness in a world where distractions and delays can dim our flame.

1. *The Reality of the Delay*

 "The bridegroom was a long time in coming, and they all became drowsy and fell asleep." (v. 5)

The delay in the bridegroom’s coming mirrors the perceived delay in Christ’s return. Over time, even sincere believers can get weary, distracted, or lose focus. But delay is not denial—Jesus will return.

*Reflection for Singles:*

In the waiting season—whether for marriage, purpose, or breakthrough—don’t let the delay dull your devotion. Stay spiritually awake.

*Personal Check-In:*

Is your fire still burning, or have you allowed the delay to dim your passion for Christ?

2. *The Difference Between the Wise and the Foolish*

"The foolish took their lamps but did not take any oil with them..." (v. 3-4)

All ten virgins had lamps, but only the wise had oil. The oil can represent intimacy with God, the Holy Spirit, a life of obedience. The foolish were not empty-handed—they just weren’t ready for the long haul.

*Reflection for Singles:*

It’s not about outward appearances or church attendance. Are you cultivating a private, personal walk with God?

Ask Yourself:

Do I have oil—daily time with God, obedience, spiritual discipline—or am I just carrying a lamp?

3. *The Midnight Cry*

"At midnight the cry rang out..." (v. 6)

Midnight represents the unexpected—a time when most people are asleep. The return of Christ will come suddenly. There won’t be time to go and get oil; there will only be time to respond.

*Reflection for Singles:*

Don’t wait for a crisis to seek God. Be ready now. Live prepared—emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.

*Challenge:*

Are you living in such a way that if Christ came tonight, you’d be ready?

4. *The Closed Door*

 "And the door was shut." (v. 10)

Perhaps the most chilling part of the parable—when the unprepared arrived, it was too late. The opportunity to enter had passed.

*Reflection for Singles:*

We live in a generation where grace is often taken for granted. But even grace has a window. The door won’t stay open forever.

*Call to Action:*

Don’t wait until you feel "ready" to surrender to Christ. The best time is always now.

5. *The Final Warning*

 "Therefore keep watch..." (v. 13)

Jesus ends with a loving yet urgent reminder—stay alert. This is not about fear, but about faithfulness.

*Reflection for Singles:*

Being single is not a pause in your spiritual journey. It’s a vital part of your preparation. Use this season wisely. Stock up on oil.

*In Conclusion:*

This parable is personal. It's about your lamp, your oil, and your readiness. Others can encourage you, but they can't lend you their oil. The call to readiness is individual and urgent.

*Final Challenge:*

If the cry came at midnight tonight, would you be ready?

Are you rapturable ? 

Would there be oil in your lamp?

Let us live daily with our lamps trimmed and burning.

Let us not only wait—but wait well.

Because the Bridegroom is coming.

I humbly rest my pen 🖊️ 

Evang. Emmanuel Adebayo 

(Happily Married to my wonderfully made Diamond and Not Searching) 😁